Life is easier for good looking people

-The ugly truth. You judge.

Well, I do agree that some people will try to find excuses to avoid the responsibility on their own lives. They tend to blame their own fate, that they feel that their lives are harder because they were not born good looking. But come to think of it, good looking people do have advantages in the society. That's a fucktarded fact, I know. Just admit it. If two people are applying for a job and they both are equally smart, and they both meet the qualifications, the person who is more attractive, will most likely get the job.

Remember in your highschool years, the handsomest boy in your batch would be the most wanted bachelor and if there's any girl who got to go on a date with him, she'd be considered as the luckiest girl in that school? Does that ring a bell? Well, durhh. That's what we call, ouch, life. Welcome to reality, where have you been, were you dead? And usually the case is, well, the handsomest boy (bonus: rich and must be in the bad-boy category) will date the prettiest girl in the school. Yeah, the when-barbie-meets-ken story. Typical.

And yeah, life is much easier for those who are good looking (and rich). But that does not mean that we (the average) can't be happy. In fact, we can be happier than them if we focus on what we already have instead of what we don't have. Just be grateful and count our blessings. Make the best of what we already got. Maybe life is harder for us, but hey, that's the challenge! No pain, no gain. Looks don't last anyway. It's not even the best quality that anybody would want to be entitled to. You don't want to be just pretty (minus the brains, a.k.a bimbo). So, be nice to people. Be smart. And if you are good looking, that's a bonus. What matters most is the inner beauty. Yeah, pppffttt I know, don't even get me started on the beauty-is-only-skin-deep talk. Ppffftboringggg.

So, yeah, life might be easier for good looking people, but I love my life as it is. I love being me.

P/S: listen to these songs and you'd feel beautiful- Itu Kamu by Estrange, Beautiful by Christina Aguilera, You're beautiful by James Blunt and Ugly by Sugarbabe :)

sila berakhir cepat.

sangat sangat stress.
cepat lah 12 minggu ini berlalu.
pls la masa cepat lah berlalu.
sy sungguh terseksa.

sangat sangat terseksa.


enough said.

Guru Terampil Badjie. ehe.

Hello 2010. So this would be my first post for this year.

So, what's up?

Oh well, I'm gonna start my teaching practicum tomorrow. I rather not to think about it now, seriously I'm so freaking nervous. Yeah, back to school, kiddo. But this time, I'm gonna be the one who has to have 5 red pens in my pencil case and has to have 'that' stare when my students misbehave. Haha. Seriously, what's so funny about it? Me, being a teacher is no joke, you know. It is real. In fact it's happening tomorrow. I will become a teacher, for like 3 freaking long months, or so. Oh boy..

Speaking of school matters, I want to take this opportunity to congratulate my sis, Couriey, for getting straight As in her PMR. She took additional 1 subject, which is Bahasa Arab Komunikasi. So now I'm officially 1A behind her in PMR. Damn. Tak aci lah! But it's okay, she's everything I wasn't. She deserves it. She's hardworking and 'skema', nak amek result pon nk dtg skola before 7.30 a.m ugh sungguh annoying! Couriey is like kakak. Skema dan rajin. I'm the opposite of them. Tak pernah buat homework, homework tiru dari budak rajin dlm class, slalu skip classes n ponteng, lepastu slalu tanak pergi sekolah, semasa tadika 5 tahun hari2 masuk kelas kakak yang dah darjah satu sbb sangat mengada perlukan kakak, semasa darjah satu, nak tukar masuk kelas cousin sbb nk ada cousin dalam class, tapi nangis juga hari2 di sekolah dan ibu terpaksa tunggu di belakang kelas senyap2 keluar untuk berkerja dan bila sedar ibu tiada akan nangis. Jadi, nenek pon datang hari2 tunggu di kelas dan bawakan makanan. pergi sekolah ayah anta, mesti kne nampak kereta ayah pusing u-turn lalu depan sekolah. satu hari tu, tak nampak kereta ayah pusing u-turn dpn sekolah sbb ayah lalu jalan straight, terus nangis tanak masuk kelas dan dimasukkan dalam toilet oleh penjaga gate sekolah sampai berhenti menangis. (-_-") Bukan setakat sekolah rendah, sekolah menengah pon banyak hal. tukar 4 sekolah dalam masa 4 bulan semasa di tingkatan 4, satu sekolah sebulan dan rasa tak best jer, pindah sekolah lain sampai last2 masuk boarding school yg jauh di taiping, even dkt boarding school itu pon ponteng skola seminggu buat2 saket mata slalu dengan cara taruk facial foam dkt mata kasi merah dan setiap minggu fly balik rumah tak anta kad balik bermalam sbb nk balik setiap minggu padahal pelajar hanya dibenarkan balik SEBULAN SEKALI sahaja dan balik asrama balik pada hari isnin pkol 5am dr rumah lalu ayah mendapat banyak saman jalanraya sampai masuk mahkamah sbb ayah memandu ke taiping dengan hanya mengambil masa kurang 2 jam. semasa bersekolah dari tadika sampai tingkatan 4, cuti tahunan ayah dan ibu banyak dihabiskan untuk my school matters. No wonder my uncles and cousins terkejut when they found out I'm gonna be a teacher! Hahhahahha!!!! I hate school and ironic sungguh sekarang perlu menghabiskan hidup selama 3 bulan di sekolah. Hhahaha!

P/S: 2009 was nice. A lot of things have happened to me last year, and I'm still here, living my awesome life fabulously! 2009 was even nicer than 2008 or 2006. I hope 2010 will be amazing! So please, please, please be kind, 2010 darling.

If Only She Knew....

He Had Such Quiet Eyes
by Bibsy Soenharjo

He had such quiet eyes
She did not realise
They were two pools of lies
Layered with thinnest ice
To her, those quiet eyes
Were breathing desolate sighs
Imploring her to be nice
And to render him paradise

If only she'd been wise
And had listened to the advice
Never to compromise
With pleasure-seeking guys
She'd be free from 'the hows and whys'

Now here's a bit of advice
Be sure that nice really means nice
Then you'll never be losing at dice
Though you may lose your heart once or twice :)

This is a very beautiful poem, about the deceptiveness in the so-called love. A man with seductive, powerful, enchanting, alluring, very calm eyes will surely melt the heart of every naive, innocent, foolish young lady, who will eventually give her everything to him, devote herself to satisfy his starving lust. In the first stanza, the quiet eyes 'were two pools of lies, layered with thinnest ice' suggested that the man's eyes are very profound, calm, peaceful, but very deceiving and perilous. Like the thin ice on the surface of a lake, it looks tranquil, peaceful, very calm, alluring, welcoming, but the minute you set your feet on it, it will break and drown you in the deep, icy cold, freezing water, you can't breathe. So, the guy will say something like "I love you, and if you love me, prove it!" Proving it by rendering him paradise, if you know what I mean. Come on, 14-17 year-olds, trying to explore things, applying what they have watched on megaporn.com? Yeah so much for the "satisfying the curiosity" wtaevercrapnot! Ppfffft give me a break! Show him your love by making love? Spread the love by spreading the legs? Pffffftttt. Love, your arse!

So in the second stanza, after the girl has given the boy her everything, all that remains are questions left unanswered. She can only ask herself the hows and whys, "how could you do this to me?", "how could you leave me after all that I've done for you?", "how could I ever trust you?", "why did you do this to me?", "why did you walk away?", "why is this happening to me, I love you so much, I gave you my all, but why did you leave me, why?!!!" She just can't stop wallowing in self pity and blaming herself. Ohh.. (T_T)

In the last stanza, "be sure that nice really means nice" meaning that if a guy is being nice to you, make sure that he does not have any hidden agenda. Do not fall into his trap. Don't just simply buy his L words, because you're gonna have to pay for it, and you are the one who will always be at the losing end. The last line sums it all up beautifully. It is okay to be heartbroken, to lose love once or twice, but there is something in a girl that once she has lost it, she will never get it back.

So, in other words, girl meets boy, girl falls for boy, boy makes girl believe that he loves, girl gives her everything to boy, girl loses everything, boy leaves girl, and yeah that's that. The end.

Yes this is one of the poems from the new literature component for secondary schools for form 4 and form 5. Truth be told, I like the new literature texts better. The poems and short stories are more suitable for the students' age. And hoyeah they will also be doing drama mama mia! Drama is fun, really. It is far more interactive than just reading the text and inferring the literally meaning *yawn* boring! Them students will sure love it!

However, we haven't been taught on how to teach the new literature texts to our students. All these while, for approximately 10 years, we ate, drank, breathed, and dreamt about the necklace, the road not taken, life's brief candle, kino, juana and coyotito in the pearl, the drover's wife, mokgobja and his superstitious ritual in the effort of looking for a rain God, the sadistic romance of the phantom of the opera, etc etc. We have technically lived knowing these poems, short stories and novels like the back of our hands. And when it is time for us to throw it out, to let it all out and be an expert, explaining every single thing about the poems and short stories to our students smoothly with passion, so expressively, tadaaaa, the literature texts have now been changed. And we have just been informed about this news, the new text changes during our pre-practicum, which was a couple of weeks ago. And to make it more dramatic, next year, next month, in January, I will be doing my practicum. PRACTICUM. the most dreaded word for all sem 7 students. Practicum, with the new literature texts, no guidelines whatsoever, how ironic! So friends, stop complaining, let's be genius! Good luck! Oh yeah we need it!

And oh btw, I think the poem above- "He Had Such Quiet Eyes" is best summed up by the song: Fifteen by Taylor Swift :)

Ayah, nak kawennnn!!!

You know, being 23 (or should i say, 24?) is really depressing. I feel old, really. During this time of the year, yes it's already december mind you, school holidays, semester break and whatnot, I've got soooo many wedding invitations from my dear friends! Oh come on, chillex! It is still quite early to get married, no? Teeet, wrong! Everybody is soooo getting married! And I started to freak out, really, seriously. What happens to I-want-to-pursue-my-phd-before-I-get-married or I'd-like-to-enjoy-my-single-life-a-little-longer or hey-i-don't-wanna-rush-into-things-and-i-want-to-keep-my-options-open? Smorg libido dah rising to the peak eh? *sigh356times* (cis, itu nama dia dah jodoh dan kau yg jodoh ntah bila nk sampai jgn nk jeles! -_-")

So I had this conversation with a friend, Q. And I told him that I've made a plan to escape. Like when december comes, I'll plan a getaway, hibernating in a cave or something. Tsk. Reality hurts but whattehell, I should just try to soldier on. It's okay darlings. I'll definitely go to your weddings. Mana tau berjumpa jodoh di sana terus tumpang tok kadi buat double weddings. haha. Okay that sounds desperate ugh euw blergh!

And oh it makes me wonder, if you have different life values/views with your partner, can you two be together, happily everrr afterrr? You know, like when you have different opinions on issues. You see things differently, you two have different perspectives on life. For me, it is okay. In fact, it can be a good thing, the catalyst of your relationship progression. I am argumentative. I like to argue, a lot. And I look up to a partner who takes a strong stand on what he think is right, who can come up with reasons to justify his claims and respects my opinions at the same time. And I like to ask, a lot. That way, I gain a lot of knowledge and useful inputs. And if he is wrong, or if he does not have the answer to my question, then he has to admit it and we can explore things together. It is a good thing, right? Like two magnets with different charges attracted to each other.

But what if the two of you just don't share the same outlook on what is important in life. You want different things in life. Your life's principles are different, like, your partner is a heavy smoker, he can't live without puffing tobacco and burning off his lungs and exhaling carbon monoxide, but you really think he should stop smoking because you don't wanna be a victim of second hand smoke, inhaling carbon monoxide thank you very much, which can cause you (and your cute kids) lung cancer. So, how would you deal with this kind of issue?

I think toleration is the key. Both parties have to tolerate and compromise. You can't just expect him to stop smoking right there and then. Give him time. It's not easy for a tobacco addict to stop smoking but that shouldn't be the excuse either. It's not easy but it is possible. Or, if you just can't compromise due to your health condition, then you have to find a partner who doesn't smoke ciggie, leaving him 2 options, losing you or stop smoking.

However, if the issues are on religious matters, then you should NOT compromise. Like, drinking alcohol. If dah kawen dan bakal atau sudah menjadi bapa pon still menoggak cheap beers (or expensive liquor), pergi clubbing budget kau bujang lagi dan tak mahu berubah, susah lah. Dude, you are the leader of the family, bear that in mind! Ppffftt.

And of course we have certain expectations or criteria that our partner has to meet kan? It depends on what do you look for in a partner. Does he/she have to be good looking? Does she/he have to be a good cook? Do you appreciate looks over intelligence? What about inner beauty? So the choice is in your hands.

Most women tend to be blinded by the so-called strong feelings. Like, just by looking at him, your heart skips a beat and you can't seem to get him off of your mind 24/7, or just by hearing his name, you can't stop smiling. Is it love? You sooo want to marry this person and devote your life to him and have his babies! But wait, red alert, ladies! Don't just look at how do you feel about him, look at how he treats you. You have to varify your feelings with facts. If he can't treat you right, don't give yourself excuses like, "he doesn't call or text me, it doesn't mean he doesn't care, he is just busy." Pppffttt. (Sila baca "dia memang tidak sgt ke dalam kau" dan "awas, jangan dibelenggu lagi!")

Okay, he might have treated you well. But you also have to look at how he confronts a situation, how he deals with problems, how he tackles the mysteries of life, how he treats other people. He might be masking his actual behavior with all the sweet talks and "good deeds" to you just to win your heart, dear. Bila dah kawen, he will show his true colour. So, look for a partner who deals with the world in a way you respect.

Compatibility is really important, lovers! Look for a partner who can bring laughter to your life, who laughs with you, not who laughs AT you. Laughter brings magic to your relationship or marriage. Really. After a long day at work, when you have had a bad day, when everything didn't go your way, you just need a partner who can lighten you up, laughs together about that shit and makes you feel better.

Yes, getting married is like whohooo yay kawen!! But choosing the right partner to spend your whole life with, is FREAKING DIFFICULT. Getting married is not just about the licence to have legal sex, having cute babies, or having someone to do your laundry or cook for you. Marriage is a synonym of responsibility. And responsibility is a BIG word. It is all about responsibility and COMMITMENT. So, are you ready for the togetherness?

And for all the newlyweds, congratulations! May 'for better or worse' be far better than worse :)



At this moment, there are 6,470,818,671 people in the world. Some are lonely, some are having good company, some hate the world, some live life to the fullest, some are lying to others, others are just learning to face the truth. Some have found new love, others are heartbroken. Some are moving on, others are still holding back. Some bitch about others and some are good, struggling with the bad. Some are loved, and some have lost love. Some fall in love and others fall out of love. 6 billion people in the world. 6 billion souls. And sometimes, all you need is one :)

You know, it brings tears to my eyes seeing old couple hoding hands ;')

;')

Break a freaking leg!

Good luck in your exams,

F8 - Dec 9th 2009, wenesday
P1 - Dec 14th 2009, Monday
P2 -Dec 15th 2009, Tuesday
P3 - Dec 16th 2009, Wednesay
XO143 - Onwards!

Ehee :)

Cepat la abes! Kau jangan nak malas2 okay! Sila jangan fail.

Jadi, untuk itu, lagu ini untuk anda. Haha. Poyo gila kan nk post kt sini lagu kau ni. Ini sebab nak kasi semangat. Sbb kau kn suka dengar lagu ini joget2 dulu baru nak study. Tsk. Kesian, retarded.




May the force be with you!

Bonne chance!

xxxoo

And what I've dreamed for is to walk beside you as you make way through this beautiful thing called life, and tomorrow, I'm going to miss those moments again. - Asyraf

awas, jangan dibelenggu lagi!

sy ini bukan love guru. sy sgt hampeh dlm bab2 bercinta. walaupon sy ni lover-oriented, tetapi sy selalu sahaja kurang bernaseb baik dlm bab2 bercinta. mungkin belom berjumpa dengan Mr. Right lagi atau pon mungkin belom sampai tahap berjumpa dengan seorang kekaseh yang mahu steady dalam hubungan percintaan kot. masalah yang biasa sy hadapi adalah percintaan jarak jauh, pandangan/pemikiran/prinsip hidup yang berbeza, ataupon tidak boleh/mahu komited dalam perhubungan samada dr pihak sy atau pon si dia. jadi itu sangat menyukarkan kedua2 belah pihak. akhirnya kami pon berpisah untuk kebaikan bersama.

jadi, di sini sy mahu merepek tentang hubungan yang tidak sihat. mungkin itu adalah petanda yang perhubungan itu sudah akan berakhir atau pon satu amaran agar anda perlu lah mengambil tindakan untuk perbaiki hubungan itu.

salah satu petanda yang hubungan anda bersama kekaseh berada dalam kategori hubungan tidak sihat adalah apabila perhubungan itu tiada 'mutual respect'. seperti contoh, anda suka memaki hamun atau mencarut dan dia juga kadang2 dijadikan 'punching bag' untuk anda melepas marah memaki hamun apabila sesuatu yang anda tidak suka berlaku. perkataan seperti "bodoh", "babi", "fuck you" dan "nakharrom" sudah biasa sangat dikeluarkan kepada si dia. mungkin dia juga akan terikot2 menggunakan perkataan seperti itu kepada anda, seperti pepatah 'give respect to earn respect'. jadi, kalau anda tiada respect pada dia, dia pon akan hilang respect pada anda lah. anda fikir perbuatan itu cool? tidak langsung. malah itu menunjukkan betapa picis nya anda, hubungan itu dan dia pada anda. selain itu, anda perlulah melayan pasangan anda dengan hormat. jangan paksa dia membuat sesuatu yang dia tidak suka dan marah2 apabila dia tidak buat seperti yang anda suroh. cakap lah elok2. jangan naik tangan atau mencederakan dia. tolonglah jangan merendahkan maruah anda seperti binatang atau lebih teruk dr binatang. anda juga perlulah hormat perasaan dia. sebagai kekaseh, anda perlulah bersifat penyayang dan mengambil berat sedikit. jangan lah mengabaikan dia tanpa sebarang text message atau phone call. mempunyai kekaseh yang tidak mengambil kisah langsung seperti itu memang sungguh menyeksakan jiwa raga. hormat lah orang yang anda proclaim your undying love confessions itu. kalau dia mahu bercerita, dengar lah. kalau dia mahu memberi pendapat, jangan terus mencelah dan meremehkan dia. biar lah kalau kekaseh anda gemok sedikit setakat bertambah 2-3 kg tidak perlu lah menjatohkan self-esteem dia dengan mengatakan yang dia gemok. ataupon dengan sengaja nya merendah2 kan kekaseh anda, terutamanya dihadapan orang lain. kalau anda rasa conscious sgt sbb mempunyai kekaseh yang hebat, anda tidak perlu lah menjadi loser dengan sengaja put her down constantly untuk menaikkan ego anda. itu sangat sampah and definitely you don't have the balls to deal with her awesomeness. kalau dah memang anda rasa kekaseh anda itu tidak cukup bagus untuk anda, kenapa masih lagi mahu bersama? berambus sudeyh. banyak lagi tentang respect ini. apa2 pon, anda perlulah hormat pasangan anda untuk menjamin perhubungan yang sihat.

kedua, anda berdua mempunyai masalah berkomunikasi. bagi sy, communication is the key to success. dalam apa jua perkara pon, komunikasi adalah alat yang paling berkesan untuk mencapai mutual understanding atau untuk convey message. tetapi untuk berkomunikasi pon ada caranya. komunikasi lah dengan menggunakan psychology, bukan emosional semata. kalau tidak, ia boleh mendatangkan pergaduhan. jadi kadang2 kedua2 belah pihak hanya pendamkan sahaja apa yang di rasa sbb mereka mempunyai masalah komunikasi. secara nature nya, lelaki akan cuba untuk mengelak bercakap tentang soal hati dan perasaan. tetapi, perempuan sangat suka bercakap tentang soal hati dan perasaan. communication gap between men and women can lead to miscommunication and arguments dan seterusnya menjadi relationship barier. As we know, men and women interact and intrpret things differently. most men think compartmentally while women think globally. secara general nya lelaki akan bercerita tentang bola, kemudian tentang boobs and bontot perempuan, selepas itu tentang budak yang paling picis di kolej. tetapi, perempuan suka connect kan semua skali semasa bercerita sbb mereka berfikir secara global. selain itu, perempuan suka bercakap secara indirect atau berkias dan lelaki lebih direct. perempuan suka pusing2 lelaki lebih straight to the point. jadi, kebanyakkan perempuan akan membebel dan lelaki pula memang menyampah apabila kena bebel. jadi susah la mahu berkomunikasi. tetapi, silent treatment bukan caranya. kalau tak puas hati, kedua belah pihak harus lah cuba untuk menyuarakan drp memendam. apa2 masalah pon boleh di kautim kalau diluah kan. kalau pendam, bagaimana nak tahu apa masalahnya, kan? kalau asyik pendam nanti smpai satu tahap meletup, habis lah semua. tetapi, lagi sekali perlu ditegaskan, perlu lah ada psychology untuk approach sesuatu issue itu.

selain itu, tiada toleransi dan kompromi. you cannot always win everything. semua anda yang nk menang, semua anda sahaja yang betol. anda salahkan semua pada kekaseh anda. anak lipan ada dalam nasi dekat kedai mamak pon nak salahkan kekaseh anda. bukan dia yang masukkan lipan itu dan sengaja mahu tunjuk pada anda. apa2 pon toleransi dan kompromi adalah dua elemen penting dalam sesebuah hubungan itu. anda tidak boleh expect semua yang anda mahu anda akan dapat. kekaseh anda juga manusia. dia mempunyai kekurangan dan selalu buat kesilapan. if you love someone, her imperfections make her perfect in your eyes. cintai lah dia seadanya. mengalah la sekali sekala. belajar untuk tolerate. ego anda itu tidak kemana. dah nama pon in a relationship, kalau tak mahu tolerate dan pentingkan diri, kenapa mahu menjalinkan hubungan? pergi hidup sorang2 dalam gua sana.

tidak tahu appreciate atau menghargai orang tersayang juga boleh menyebabkan hubungan anda hancur. kadang2 kita selalu lupa untuk menghargai orang yang kita sayang dan yang sangat menyayangi kita. we always take things for granted. seperti dalam post sebelum ini yang bertajuk love is funny sometimes, kita selalu tak sedar betapa pentingnya dan sayangnya kita pada kekaseh kita sehingga dia pergi meninggalkan kita. tak susah pun nak hargai orang yang kita sayang. let hir (her/him) know that you love hir. if your partner does something nice to you, berterima kasih lah. kalau dia masak untuk anda, walaupun hanya dua biji makanan dan anda rasa itu tidak cukup, instead of being mad at her, say thank you dan makan lah dengan penuh kaseh sayang, sbb dalam setiap biji makanan itu terkandung kaseh sayang yang maha hebat. walaupon mungkin makanan yang di buat itu sedikit masin. kalau dia ada bersama anda, jangan lah mengabaikan dia sepanjang hari dengan bermain pes10. hargai effort dia untuk membuatkan anda makanan dan juga utuk meluangkan waktu bersama anda. sekali sekala, kasi lah hati dia berbunga2 pula. kalau anda mempunyai wang lebih kerana berjimat cermat berjaya menghisap hanya sekotak dunhill 20 seminggu, bawa lah dia makan di tempat yang istimewa sedikit. dia pon pasti cukup bahagia kerana anda telah berjaya mengurangkan menghisap rokok. kalau nk dia lagi bahagia, terus berhenti. haha. hadiahkan lah dia sebuah lagu dengan petikan gitar yang anda belajar bersama rakan untuk didengarkan kepada dia, ataupon masak lah untuk dia pula. paling penting dan paling basic, tunjukkan yang anda caring terhadap dia. kalau sebelum ini anda suka hati nak message atau tidak, nak call sebulan sekali pon harapan, satu hari anda langsung tak bertanya khabar, apa kata anda cuba message dia selalu dan call2 dia kadang2. apa lah salahnya anda pula tunjukkan usaha dalam hubungan itu. pasti hubungan itu akan lebih indah, percaya lah!

selfish. dengan perangai selfish anda, percaya lah, kekaseh anda sangat2 terseksa. semua anda sahaja yang penting. remember, the world doesn't revolve around you, so does her world. even if dia taruk anda sebagai priority. jangan ambil kesempatan. mungkin kelemahan dia adalah apabila dia menyintai seseorang, dia akan cinta sehabis mati. tetapi, sebagai kekaseh yang mengaku sayang dan cintai dia, anda jangan lah mengambil kesempatan dengan mementingkan diri sendiri. mentang2 lah dia sayang anda dan jadikan anda priority, anda jadi malas nk berusaha dalam relationship itu. semua harapkan dia. kalau hubungan dah macam bosan dan tiada 'spark' lagi, anda salahkan dia sebab tidak ada effort untuk menceriakan hubungan itu. anda pula buat apa? pernah tak anda berusaha untuk menghidupkan hubungan anda berdua? sila lah jawab. jadi, jangan lah pentingkan diri sendiri. kalau anda tidak selfish dan fikir tentang pasangan anda, pasti lah hubungan anda akan berjaya.

ada satu pepatah barat mengatakan "it takes two to tango" atau mungkin pepatah melayu yang berkaitan adalah "bertepuk sebelah tangan takkan berbunyi". relevan tak? maksud sy, sesuatu hubungan itu haruslah 'mutual'. kalau satu pihak tak boleh nk menghormati kehendak dan menghargai pihak yang lagi satu, jadi jangan lah bercinta. kalau satu pihak tak boleh nak faham, tolerate dan berkompromi dengan pihak satu lagi, jangan nak menggatal ada kekaseh. sbb kalau anda sangat selfish dengan membiarkan satu pihak sahaja yang mencuba menyelamatkan atau menghidupkan perhubungan kamu berdua, memang sgt sukar lah itu. jadi, untuk sesuatu perhubungan itu menjadi, kedua2 belah pihak haruslah berusaha untuk menghidupkan ia. kalau rasa2 susah sangat, sila lah ucap selamat tiggal, for good.

sekian.

I feel a bit cranky and restless due to lack of sleep. Oh my, look at the damage Ive done to my self! Look at these eye bags, ugh! I've tried everything to shut my eyes to sleep so that i can recharge my energy and be in a good mood the next day. Even drinking milk and reading boring books don't work. I just can't friggin' sleep. Oh, shall I blame it on the internet- the distraction of modern life, for keeping me awake the whole night? Hello, insomnia. Nice to meet you, very 'nice' indeed. Ppppfffttt. Erratic sleep does take a toll on my health. Now I look like a zombie. A fat zombie. A very fat, fugly, boring zombie. Oh dear.

Btw, I'm thinking about cutting my hair short. I've always had long hair my whole life! So, I want to try a new look, with short hair. But 80% of the respondents disagreed. One particular respondent strongly disagreed, saying that I look friggin ugly with short hair. Menyampah gila tgk, burok gila ko rambut mcmtu (Accap, 2009). Tsk. Baik lah sy sedar (T_T) I received quite a number of comments about my short hair vs. long hair but i'm still confused.

short hair

vs.

long hair

haih... (-_-")

My babies are growin up so fast!

Meet my babies, Andrea and his baby sister, Batrisya. They both have blue eyes, Andy has brunette hair and Brisya has blonde hair because of the genetic mutation. (excessive exposure to Brad Pitt's, Scarlette Johansson's and Brandon Boyd's photos, films, videos, etc.)

Andy and Brisya in pre-school.

4 year old Princess Brisya and 6 year old Macho Andy

Andy and Brisya Rocking out on their dolls. Hey Andy has his ear pierced and he's only 6! But Brisya has always been a goody sweetie cutie princess. Ehe.

Brisya and Andy in kindergarten. Andy's current obsession-football, pes10, futsal. It's in the blood. He wants to be like uncle Pirlo. Brisya is as lovely as everrrr.

Andy and Brisya have grown up lovely! Awww~

Andy looks metrosexual in his pink pants. Haha. He loves girlsssssss though. Well durhhh.. he's so staright okay! Brisya's current favorite colors are pink and white. And yes, she does look perfect in these two colors. She looks very.... BRISYA. Andy with his ipod and Brisya with her book. They are in elementary now!

Andy looks very familiar....

Cuz they both have the same traits! Eceyh. Or maybe just because they both wear the same color shirt and pants. (That's more like it! Haha!)

Btw, I wanted to change Andy's and Brisya's hairstyle. Daddycool wants Brisya to have Brunette hair, just like her brother. So, maybe I'm gonna do a makeover for both my babies. Tho I think Andy looks so handsome now, he doesn't need to change anything. And Brisya looks so lovely but maybe brunette suits her better? hurm...

p/s: virtual babies keep me occupied during this period of time. Haha, pathetic, but hey, I don't give a shaite. Cuz they are so cute! I love my Andrea and Batrisya! Tehee (^____^)

Written by: Supermom.